Friday, June 7, 2013

Long Island Trip down Memory Lane

Thursday, May 23, Day 31.

Our stay on Roosevelt Island has provided us a great respite against the activites of the week.  We wait for our tram to take us off the island and to Penn Station, where we are meeting our family to go to Long Island.

John has promised us a "Blake Tour" of the places he grew up.


For those of you unfamiliar with Long Island, it juts out from the city of New York, and is the commuter community for much of New York.  John and his family lived in Floral Park and Garden City.

The boroughs of Brooklyn and Queens are on Long island, which contains 7.6 million people.  It is the longest and largest island in the contiguous US, being 118 miles long and 23 miles wide.  It is larger than the state of Rhode Island.  If it were a state, it would be the 13th largest!



The start of our Blake tour is at the Long Island Railroad Terminal in Penn Station.  One thing we learned, is that it isn't just a train --- it is the Long Island Railroad!


This board announced the various destinations and gives the time and the track from which you will depart.  It only makes those visible about 10 minutes ahead of time, so you have to be watching and ready to go.




Once on the train our tour continues as John tells us about the history of the towns we will see and points out things along the way.



One thing we have been cautioned about and that is the space between the platform and the train.  You don't want to get your foot caught or make a misstep.  In Europe, they tell you to "Mind the Gap."  here it's "Watch the Gap."  This sign is everywhere!

The conductors are friendly and very New Yawk!   Calling out the names of the stations is automated now, but John gave us his best impression of a conductor --Hollis, Queens Village, Bellerose, Floral Park, Stewart Manor, Nassau Boulevard, Garden City,  Country Life Press, and  Hempstead. We are getting off at the last stop in Hempstead. 



Lots of old water towers outside, which are now used as call towers.  Clever!

Here is the end of the line  Hempstead.

Maria's Mom and Dad, Cesar and Mary take a seat outside the train station while we wait for the boys to go get the van we rented.


Our first stop is at the house where John and his sister Susan grew up , 262 Plainfield Avenue in Floral Park.

He pointed out his bedroom and other features of the house.   They could climb out the windows on the  dormers  and sit outside.   We also got to see how John disengaged his Uncle Bill's car one day and rolled back into the neighbors house.   Also, Sunday nights were Pizza night, ordered from Belletown to eat while the whole family watched the Ed Sullivan Show.  Other times when John was home alone, he got orange sherbert and chocolate ice cream and watched Gunsmoke.  Stories I've heard many times, so it's great to see the actual places.  




Next, we went on to the Floral Park Elementary School.  This is quite a structure.  Big columns outside, a circular driveway, and a spectacular auditorium that had a balcony and fold down seats.

John went up to the front door and soon a lady came out.  He said with great glee that he was a graduate of the school and could he bring his family in for a tour.  There was a look of sheer terror on the ladies face as she told him No!  He had forgotten how locked down schools are these days.  In the meantime,  Maria went inside and took some pictures.  It is indeed a magnificent place for an Elementary school.


Jack and Maria posed outside of John's Alma Mater.

John told us about having a paper route, and also walking with all his friends to school.  He pointed out where they lived as we drove along.  There was a little store, which is now a house, where they went to buy candy and soda, having saved their lunch money to go there.  And how big the hills seems as he rode his bike around the neighborhood.

Right behind the school is Belmont Racetrack. literally abutting the school grounds.   The kids would slip through the fence and into a wooded area to watch the races.  If they were caught by the cops, actually Pinkerton police referred to as the "Pinkies", they were just escorted out, no big deal.


Next was downtown Floral Park.  John told about the Volunteer Fire Department and how they held these contests each year, closing off the street.  There were timed events as the firetrucks roared down the street, fireman leaped off, connected the hose, put up the ladder and put out the "fire." It was an all day event to both honor the volunteers and show off their skills.




Their fire stations are a work of art as well, and something of which the whole community is proud.



This tribute to the Floral Park volunteer firemen who died on 9/11 includes this piece of the Towers and the names of those who died. 

Right across the street is the Methodist Episcopal Church, which was the family church during John's childhood.  





He didn't know it was the first church built in Floral Park.


We went in through the parlor and a very nice woman came out to greet us.  John told us about the important social aspects of this church, which was the community gathering point.  He took a tour of the basement where some of the children's activities occurred.


The woman asked him who he recalled from those days, but no names came to mind.


Jack, Dixie and John pose before the altar.


The lady brought out a copy of the anniversary booklet published for the 155th anniversary of the church.  He asked for another copy which he later gave to his sister.


The big surprise as he went through the book later, was that his grandfather was on the building committee when the church was rebuilt.  That is him, top low, second from the right.  

John didn't recall that his grandparents even went to the church. 

But here are his grandparents, John and Margaret Blake listed as 50 year members of the church.  One of the people the woman had asked John about was Doris Borkhuis, listed below his grandparents.  Ironically, she is still a member of the church!  I bet she has some stories to tell!


Floral Park was a great place to grow up, an upper middle class American community, and a commuter community for NYC.  The downtown area stills looks much the same.  In fact, many of the streets look the same.  John remembers having an Italian girlfriend whose mother cooked great spaghetti.  (That's a story I've heard a lot -- all of his girlfriends had mothers who were great cooks. Hmmm.)

Next on our tour was Garden City.  This is where his grandparents lived and where his father and sister grew up.    It was the headquarters for Double Day Publishing for a long time, but it was primarily the residence of many of Wall Streets finest. 


Dad Blake was a charter member of the Garden City Country Club.  There were many family occasions celebrated there over a wide span of years.  Dad was a good golfer. John caddied there for his grandfather, and once caddied for Perry Como.  He says that none of the other caddys wanted the job because Como was a poor tipper.

One of the first times I was there was for the celebration of Nana and Dad's 50th anniversary.  But over the years, there are many fond memories of family celebrations here.  And of course, everyone got all dressed up in those days to go to the "Club." 

We went inside and took a brief look.  No one in the family belongs to the club now, and we didn't stay very long. But it has been beautifully maintained and is still one of the icons of the community.   





The putting green was very busy on the day we were there.  


John's grandparents lived in this house at 63 Brixton Road.  It is a beautifully built Tudor style house, with a slate roof, wonderful details around the windows and a magnificent front door.   Of course, as a child, John thought this was the biggest place around.  He remembers being there for Thanksgiving and Christmas and being able to ride his bike there from Floral Park, up and down those "big" hills.  And they went sledding in the street.

As a youngster, John's father had a horse in the garage/stable out back of the house, which he rode to the village green. There were back stairs, and a servant who presented all the family meals.




We discovered the house had been put on the market within the last week.  So we took a peak in some of the windows.  One of the things he remembers is the very large oritneal rug on the floor, and the Christmas tree in the window.   It is in need of some work, but all in all , it is a beautiful house, and one filled with great memories for John and his sister Susan.


We took a little side trip to do a friend a favor.  Our neighbor in San Diego, Betsy McIntyre, also grew up in Garden City, and her father was the Mayor.  This is her house, facing the Men's Club golf course.  There was a pond out back where she went ice skating in the winter.  We were happy to get a picture for her.



The last place John's grandparents lived was 17 Keenan Place, also in Garden City,  His grandparents had "downsized" in later years.  This was a very comfortable house, also the site of many family gatherings.  It had a screened in back porch, and there were lots of summer gatherings there.

John's grandfather was a very formal man, always in a suit and tie, which he wore to every meal. Breakfast was always the same - a small glass of orange juice, a piece of toast, and cereal.  Dad took off his suit coat to put this on the table, and put on a white apron with the words J.H. Blake Flour, Inc.  across it in red letters.  After the preparation, he would put back on his suit coat for the meal.




And another family home, at 156 Wetherill in Garden City, where John's Aunt Peggy, her husband Bill Norris and cousins Gale and June lived.   The cousins had a lot of interaction growing up.  And Uncle Bill, I remember, served Spumoni and Neopolitan ice cream, always, for dessert.

John treated us to lunch at the Garden City Hotel.  This is THE institution in Garden City.  Many a wedding, prom, cotillion, debutante party, etc. was held at the Garden City Hotel.  It was always the place to have any important event.

The old Garden City Hotel is the one we remember.  But, it was rebuilt some years ago, and it was a wonderful place to have a superb lunch and think about all we'd seen.

The old hotel
 The new hotel
 Close up of the front


The lobby


Out last stop on our tour was Jones Beach.  This is a 6.5  mile long white sand beach, originally created in the 1920's by New York visionary Robert Moses.

Each year, the beach reeves 6-8 million visitors.  It was badly damaged in Hurricane Sandy, completely submerged, and filled with debris.  Many of the parking lots are not open, but Mayor Bloomberg has pulled out all stops to get it open for Memorial Day.  The signature event of the weekend is the Bethpage Air Show.  

Unfortunately it wasn't exactly swimming weather, but Maria wanted to take off her shoes and experience the white sand.  And she did! 



John's greatest memories of Jones Beach is the entire family packing up and leaving around 7 in the morning to spend the day at the beach.  They would meet other families and friends down there.  And they were always in Lot 9, which is at the end of all the beaches and one of the smaller ones.  John and his Dad would sometimes fish for fluke, flounder and crabs.   They would have lunch, and John and susan would go to the concessions to buy ice cream, which John remembers having been called Neller Rolls. (More about that later.)  At the end of the day, John's Dad would grill a thick sirloin steak on the barbeque, and they would conclude a long, but magnificent day at the Beach.



What a wonderful childhood!  John and his family moved to Florida when he was about 13, and he lived there until High School graduation.  His parents eventually moved back to Long Island, and
so our trips to see them were always back in this area.  We were happy with our Blake Tour!

After our ride back on the LIRR, John and I went to Grand Central Station and ate at the Grand Central Oyster Bar.  This area was beautifully restored, thanks to Jackie Kennedy.  I ate there with John's Dad when I first met him.  Wonderful memories for me, too!



The Grand Central Oyster Bar.


Graduation at Yankee Statium


Wednesday, May 22, Day 30

John and I took the tram from Roosevelt Island  over to Manhattan to get to Yankee Stadium in the Bronx. 

We arrived, along with zillions of other happy families to witness the graduation of their  children.







I am looking at the view beyond the billboards and jumbotrons on  the other side of the field.
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The graduation venue was set up around the perimeter of the baseball field. 


We were expecting beating- down sun and heat.  The heat is there, but the sky is overcast, and we are under a shaded area, so we are pretty lucky.


The graduates are spread out below us, each according to the school from which they are graduating.


The President of NYU John Sexton bestowed a Medal of Honor on Edith Schlain Windsor, the woman whose case is pending before the Supreme Court.  She had a lesbian relationship for 40 years and married her partner in Canada two years before her wife died.  The marriage is not recognized under the Defense of Marriage Act and Edith faced a $350,000 estate tax.  At 83 years old she took on the legal battle. The outcome is expected this June.


Oliver Stone received an honorary degree.  No speech, but he was recognized for creating uncompromising, award-winning films.  Like all of the honorees, he is an NYU alumnus. 


And Claire Marie Frasier, a renowned scientist known for  her  human genome sequencing research. 



Omara Khan Masoudi, the director of the National Museum of Afghanistan who saved thousands of antiquities and kept them hidden during the Iraq war. 


And an honorary degree and the graduation speaker, David Boies, whose cases before the Supreme Court (like Bush V. Gore) have earned him international fame.  Boies currently has a case pending before the Supreme Court, Hollingsworth v. Perry, which would overturn California's Proposition 8, regarding marriage equality.  Although no one knows which way the court will rule, should they rule for marriage equality, it would be landmark civil rights decision.  Boies spoke to that case almost exclusively.  Many of the graduates were disappointed with Boies, since they have had both Clintons and Sonia Sotomayor as recent graduations speakers, and the rumor was the speaker would be Michele Obama.   However, if Boies wins this case, this may be a speech that the graduates remember and their lives will definitely be affected by the outcome.   






There were school entertainment groups , including this one that sang "New York, New York. "


And at last, all of the graduating classes were recognized and they became official alumni of the university. 


We went over to Babe Ruth Park and took pictures of our proud and excited graduate.

Cassy and Maria



Jack, Maria, Cassy, Mary and Cesar.


Cassy and Joel Fullerton

Cassy in her pretty graduation dress.



It was also Joel's 25th birthday, so we celebrated both occasions at a restaurant called Rebar, which is in the DUMBO part of  New York.  Dumbo stands for Down Under the Manhattan Bridge Overpass.



Afterwards, we took a stroll along the waterfront.  You can see the new World Trade Center in the background.

 A beautiful, peaceful sunny day, with a slight breeze coming off the water.  It was a great way to decompress.




The Manhattan Bridge and the Brooklyn Bridge were above us.



Cassy and Maria took a ride on Jane's Carousel.  Built in 1922, the carousel was been restored and housed in a new pavilion.  The carousel was a victim of Hurricane Sandy, which flooded the electrical components underneath.  The owner, Jane Walneta, whose husband was the developer for Dumbo, watched from their apartment as the water rose.  Fortunately the damage was minimal, and the husband says, "We can fix it.  This place takes a beating everyday.  A couple thousand kids with ice cream and lollipops - that's like a hurricane."




May all your princess dreams come true, Cassy Bear!  And congratulations!  The torch at NYU has been passed to another generation.




Allentown and a family history lesson.


Saturday, May 18, Day 26

Before we leave North East, John wants to get his hair cut.  He goes to the only barber shop we can find in town, and while there, the barber tells him he will close up shop in a few hours to go eel fishing.  He has 1,000 traps on 19 miles of line and sets 400 traps at a time.   He gets $2.90 for small eels, $3.50 for big ones, and a good catch per trap is 5 pounds, although he usually gets three pounds.  The eels are  measured by their circumference.   He has been doing this by the Susquehanna River for about a year.   It makes sense, since you can enter right into the tackle shop from inside the barber shop, and get all the lore you need - fishing or otherwise.  John is happy with his haircut from an eel fisherman!

We are headed for Pennsylvania today, more specifically to John's Uncle Bill Humphrey's house.  We are going visit a few days and then leave the camper there while we head to New York.  



These are the types of houses we are starting to see -  big old stone ones, that are a couple of hundred years old.  


Uncle Bill lives in Perkionmenville.  I guess the largest nearby town is Allentown.  


Sunday, May 19, Day 27
We went to the Shady Maple to eat breakfast.    John always likes to order what's local on the menu and so he orders scrapple while he is here.  Never had scrapple?   It's pork "trimmings" (That's being polite!) that have been boiled and then combined with cornmeal, wheat flour and spices.   To me, it's an acquired taste! 

The Shady Maple used to be a gas station.  

They also served these pastries, which are mainly Pennsylvania Dutch in origin.  More on them later.


Uncle Bill likes red, and wears red hats.  Here's his stash in the closet from which he will select today's hat.

He tells us that instead of going to Philadelphia to get the train to New York, we are better off taking the bus from Hellertown.  So we three go off to check it out.  The bus tickets are sold at the gas station, and the buses come to a parking lot about three blocks from the gas station.  Then it's a non-stop into New York.  So it sounds like a good idea.  We end up buying a one way ticket.  John wants to see if it works before he buys the other half.  Hope we have another option if he doesn't like it!

Bill offers to take us on a tour of Allentown, which is where he and John's mother Jane grew up.  Our first stop was at the house at 368 Hanover Street.  The Humphreys lived there while Bill was ages 6 to 13.




This is Mosser elementary schools he and Jane attended.


The first house they lived in was at 1205 E Livingston.  We drove by and Jane took a quick picture out the window Then we stopped.  We heard a young girl yelling, "Dad, someone just took a picture of our house."  The guy came out of the house and made tracks over to the truck.  "Hey," he said, "You taking pictures of my house?  What you takin' pictures of my house for? "  Bill said, "My Dad built that house."  The guy backed off, and let us take some additional pictures. He turned out to be pretty nice.



Bill's Dad owned his own sign painting business and did large commercial installations.  He did quite well until the Depression hit, and they lost this house when he was unable to keep up with the mortgage.  Pop got a job with the WPA painting schools.  Bill remembers the municipal swimming pool and playing in a nearby quarry. Also he remembers climbing up onto coal trains and throwing coal off to the poor people who would pick it up along the tracks.


Allentown is a quaint, tree lined town, built by a wealthy sea merchant who hoped to capitalize on the area's proximity to the Lehigh River.  One claim to fame is that the liberty bell was hidden here when the British invaded Philadelphia.


Ritter Elementary School that both attended.  These schools are unbelievable in their construction!


Look at the brickwork!


We saw the high school from which Jane graduated.


Bill then took us to the Allentown Fairgrounds, which is right in the middle of town.  This is one of his favorite restaurants. We didn't stop there, but it looks interesting!


People come from all over to attend events here, including concerts by big name performers.  Bill remembers coming to see Johnny Cash.


This is the hospital where both Bill and Jane were born.


 Bill's Dad (The family called him Pop) got a job during World War Two painting names and numbers on the ships at the Naval shipyards in Philadelphia.  Jane wanted to finish high school in Allentown, so he commuted for three years, staying at his mother's house in the Bridesburg area of Philadelphia during the week and coming home on the weekends.  When Jane graduated they moved to Philadelphia.

Here's the Episcopal church they attended a youngsters.


It was a fun day, totally unexpected, and we really enjoyed seeing it.